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Once again, I asked some Harmony Court residents to help with the November blog. Most of the responses are from new residents relating memories of Thanksgivings past. I hope you will enjoy reading them as you recall your own past Thanksgivings.
Jane Bos
Great memories surrounding Thanksgiving for our family was lots of food with everyone’s extended families, ending with coming to my home, enjoying fun and games depending on the weather. The best part was going to Omaha at Central Park and seeing animated characters in the water and surrounding areas on the grass and walking bridge, hearing songs from various people, seeing carriage rides, and hearing the mayor. From there we used to go to the Civic Center for the free ice skating shows and later to the Holland Center for holiday music.
Bert Fisher
My best Thanksgiving memory occurred on November 26, 1959. My soon to be husband bought me a plane ticket and flew me out to Vallejo, California. (I lived in Platt…South Nebraska) From there we drove with his sister and husband to Reno, Nevada where we got married. That will be 62 years with the same man next Friday, November 26, 2021. What a great life we have had.
Jean Guyett
Seventy-five years ago, my mother was about to give birth to her eighth baby. My five brothers and my sister and myself were all born at home, but the doctor said he wanted my mother to go to the hospital. It was Thanksgiving. My sister Doris cooked the turkey. She was 19. She also made the gravy. It was good, but pretty lumpy. We all called it “bean gravy”. It was a long time before every time we were served gravy, we all said, “Is it Doris’ bean gravy?”.
Joni Hall
As I look back to the most memorable Thanksgiving, this story was one I enjoyed most. I was around six years old. We were invited to my aunt and uncle’s house in Indiana. The only way we could travel with all of us was in our pickup truck. It was very cold out, so my dad borrowed a homemade camper shell that fit our truck perfectly.
My dad got the shell loaded onto the truck along with all the other stuff. Our last day at school was the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. We had a long 12-hour drive through the cold winter night. My two brothers and I were all covered up in the back of my folk’s truck and we slept all through the night, all nice and cozy and warm under all of our blankets. My sister was in the front with my parents as she was only around 2 years old, and it was too long of a ride for her to spend in the back with us.
We arrived at my aunt and uncle’s house early Thanksgiving morning. One thing that was special about our trip was my mom had cooked the turkey the day before and when we arrived at my aunt’s house, we were ready to eat turkey with all of my cousins in my aunt’s huge house. A lot of fun and excitement. The most memorable thing about this Thanksgiving was arriving safely in the back of the truck under blankets that kept us warm. Remind you this was just a wooden box made to fit the truck and no way to heat the back. Like nowadays camper boxes are warm with heat and air conditioning.
What a way to travel!
Dottie Jacox
I really remember Thanksgivings after I married, and we had the children. They would bring home things like turkeys they had colored and cut out and we would talk about the 1st Thanksgiving that the people on the Mayflower had with the Indians. We would always go to church and thank God each year for what we had. One year my in laws came and my oven went out. So, we bought our first microwave oven, and it was big enough to bake the turkey! That was exciting for us. Growing up on a farm in Colorado, we didn’t remember having Thanksgiving or eating turkey.
Each year we spend with our children, we always go around the table and tell what we are thankful for too!
Nancy McConnell
Throughout our married years, Dave and I, and our family would attend the Thanksgiving service at church on Wednesday evening. We would always take food items to be given to the needy. Then on Thanksgiving Day, we would host the family feast using the china, crystal, silverware, and candles. At the end of the meal, the kids would dip their finger in the water in the goblet and then run it around the top of the goblet and it would make music. Each of us would share something we are thankful for.
Traditions are great
Lois Prather
When I was young, (maybe 4 to 7 years old) we had a housekeeper who was a member of a church that didn’t celebrate any special occasion other than family birthdays, so she was available to cook and serve our holiday dinners, but everyone pitched in to help. I had 2 very important (I thought) tasks. First, I helped prepare the Waldorf salad by slicing the grapes and scooping out the seeds. The knife was very sharp (I felt very grown up-very sharp knife-wow) and everyone who passed near me while I was seated at the breakfast nook table slicing and scooping said, “Be careful, Lois, don’t cut yourself.” Then task #2-just before everyone came to the dining room, I carried an ice filled glass bucket, about the size of a gallon ice cream carton, around the table and dropped 2 ice cubes in the water goblets at each place setting. The ice bucket had a silver handle, and the tongs were silver. Everyone who saw me icing the goblets said, “Be careful, Lois, don’t drop any ice or water on the table.”
JoAnn Sorensen
Thanksgiving memories…one word sums it up for me and that word is ‘family’. As long as I can remember, Thanksgiving was a day when the family got together for lots of good food, conversation, cards, and board games. As our family grew, children married, and had families, we still get together. The cell phones were left on the kitchen counter and the TV was not turned on. It truly was a day of fun. Our holiday would start around 10:30 am and end around 10:30 pm when everyone was full of food, had laughed, cried, and talked about the past year and was ready to go forward to another year. This year we will be getting together once again; however, it will not be the same because a very important person is in a better place. However, we know our missing person will be with all of us and smiling as he watches all the fun we are having. Have a Happy Thanksgiving and God bless.
Beth L. Fay
When I was a child, most of my Thanksgivings were alike in nearly every respect: the people present as well as the traditional Thanksgiving feast of a meal, cooked by my mother on our farm, which was about halfway between Des Moines and Omaha.
Given the almost dystopian aspect of current times because of the advent of coronavirus, its ironic that the very ordinariness of past Thanksgivings makes those times seem full of glory in every way.
Despite the many angst-ridden things about modern, Covid-tinted Thanksgivings, there is still much about which to be thankful, and a good deal of that, for Marv and me, directly connected to living at Harmony Court.
We are thankful for the friends we’ve made here, and for a dedicated staff that cares for us and inserts tremendous helpings of joy and laughter in our daily lives with the result that they feel like family - people who allow us to laugh along with them, and perhaps cry as well. We feel safe here. We feel the value of knowing we can be helpful to others, and the relief of knowing that if we need the same kind of help further down the road, we will not be left alone.
If Thanksgiving came with wishes, I would wish that the way the world is altered by this pandemic would bring about a better world somehow, and that we all have the stamina to survive the changes that will be necessary to get us to that better place. In the interim, I give thanks to God for you all because you have helped provide us with the means to survive, perhaps to see a beautiful new world that in every way compares with the beautiful old world.
November 23, 2021
Gay Coombs
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